What if you could wake up and live life as if you’re one of the best at what you do?
One of the best teachers, writers, parents? One of the best vet techs? One of the best coaches? One of the best gardeners?
It’s hard at first, because it’s so common to downplay our accomplishments and dreams. We want to be humble.
Stop being humble. Be one of the best.
The Top Ten Percent
If you were in the top 10% of what you do, whether it’s your day job, your life’s work, a hobby, or just showing up in your life, what would you do differently?
How would you show up? How would you manage your time? What would you let go of and what would you focus on?
If I was in the top 10% of content marketers, I’d be regularly learning new things about marketing – because that field is always changing. So I’ve started taking online courses to support the work I do in my day job, and it’s paying off. I’ve been able to hire someone new for my content team because I’m driving a great strategy.
If I was in the top 10% of authors, I’d never stop talking about my book. I’d be talking to local bookstores about putting on events (when we can gather again) and I’d be on podcasts and doing interviews for other blogs and magazines. I started putting myself out there even though it’s scary, but I’ve sold my book at a convention, been featured as a source in a magazine, been booked to speak at my local library, and I’ve started booking podcast interviews.
But I still hesitate sometimes.
What’s holding me back?
Fighting Imposter Syndrome
I’m scared people will think badly of me for speaking highly of myself and my work. Imposter syndrome is so noisy sometimes. I see other writers and think they’re the real deal and I must just be pretending.
But if I want to be a top 10% author, I need to act like one.
To beat imposter syndrome, try these tips:
- Find the evidence that you’re already the best
- What are the super cool “unbelievable” successes you dance about in the moment and then conveniently forget when you’re trying to think about them? Make a real list on real paper.
- Keep a record of positive feedback
- Copy and paste your positive reviews, client testimonials, and anything else that makes you feel amazing about the work you do
- Use negative feedback to find constructive criticism
- If someone’s just being a jerk, ignore/block them, but if a negative opinion of your work has the potential to improve your work, use it as an opportunity to become better, closer to that top 10%
I’m the real deal, even when I don’t feel like it. And so are you!
PS. If you’re tired of the ways society tells you you’re part of the problem, please buy my book (it’s less than the cost of a pizza) and leave a five star review so others can find it. It’s definitely one of my top ten accomplishments and I’d love for you to read it.